Moldies
Apparently a forum was set up during the Gina Ford fiasco, where GF threatened to close Mumsnet down. MN did go offline a couple of times and that scared us a bit, but a couple of us found sanctuary at the BMC ( bad mothers Club) they welcomed us and came on our site ( when it was fixed) and we welcomed them. I remember quite clearly that a couple of well known mnetters were there. At the SAME time another mumsnetter set up a a yahoo group and sent out invites.
So when it came to light in November i was sure it was the Yahoo group.
It wasn’t. Some prolific posters( Cod, twig, and others that no one really noticed) left and went to a forum that was created for another purpose and to all intense and purposes defunkt. Turned the lights on and invited others who had professed their dissilusion at MN. In some futile attampt at democracy they put up a poll and invited mumbers to vote on whether a person should be allowed in.
A Poll with someones name on. This ( we have been told) lasted v. briefly. to be replaced by a list of people and if one objected they could send a veto to the ‘admin’ (dark lords) who made a decision. No one knows how many vetos it took. its all very secret.
Secrecy was the name of the game. there were periodic cries of ” it wasn’t meant to be secret but….Private”
Which quite fankly is horseshit. an ex member ( who resigned after noting the way it ran) informed MN that phrases in the same ilk of “phew that was close” after nearly being outed some months ago – wee banded around fairly often.
one of the Moldies commented that their only sadness was that they couldn’t invite MN friends or tell them about it.
some people are quite frankly so desperate to remain friends with these pathetic self obsessed halfwits, that they say things like ” well, so what if i have friends who are moldy”
and moldies are saying things like ” well so what if i post on here, i still have friends on MN”
can i ask ….what kind of friendships these are? Where a friend will either
a) join a secret organisation and not tell you
b) join a secret organisation, nominate you behind your back and without your knowledge
c) do (b) friend gets rejected but you stay in group
d) Don’t nominate friend to secret group
so – you tell me. Who treats their friends like that?
Private! pmsl there are 143 of them, and they truly believe there is not one journo among them? BUUUUULLLshit.
who broke it to the national papers? SOme of them tried arguing that MNHQ did it, but if you read the original article and quotes, i don’t think that MN comes off very well at all, neither does anyone else.
did you have a lightbulb moment? yip, me too.
There was two posters who were my idols, the ones i would most love to meet. SOOOOOOO not the kiss ass codites the rest of them are.
and proper oldies from when it all first started, not these parvenu codites.
and they all participate in keeping this place a secret and they all agree – i mean its implicit with being a member – with how they do nominations.
Elitist. secret.
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update, it seems the Yahoo site wasn’t without discrimination as i had thought.
in anticipation
am off to look up nice things for my new house. where my daughter ( the one with great predicted mocks did i not say?) GETS A BIGGER ROOM – she has much grand plans.
SIL who now lives nearby will be a godsend – i miss a friendly northrn face who makes a great brew.
passed my appraisal at work with flying colours yesterday. B0oss practically begged me to take on the post if he could make it full time position after he secndment….oh did i not say?
DD has bf – he is v. good fun – did i not say?
ds still has GF he picks her up everyday from work experience – awww – did i not say?
BIL has great job started this week – loves it, great money, great boss – did i not say?
DNeice in senior school this week, made friends been put in top sets v. popular. -did i not say?
DNephew in infants this week. lots of friends – the door never stops. – did i not say?
Sil bought me flowers, ironed uniforms, hoovered carpets, baked steak pie and made cheesecake yesterday. – did i forget to mention these things whilst ranting about tidying the bathroom?
USM DRUM KIT

Came today. I Spent hours putting it up – thinking ” oh i will just do the fiddly bits and dh can do the technology”
but i sat there looking at it for two minutes thinking ” how hard can it be”
anyway – up shot is i did it.
its well cool
i have a fucking drum kit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
am getting a music stand on saturday.
at the moment my music is duct taped to a moving box!
the bass pedal is a bit keen and i can’t hear the snare above the ‘real sound’ of hitting the pad itself – but am thinking with some wireless earphones – this won’t be a problem.
at my next lesson i am learning an AC DC b ack in black
its about the easiest rock beat – i gather
watched a few on you tube- piece of piss
Ahhhhhhhhhhh…and breathe

was ok – i didn’t blow anyones socks off, but i didn’t do bad either.
cheers
the ofer on mums house gone up by 5k – asking for another 2.5 and its SOLD
not counting chickens – but happier.
AT LAST, have started on George orwells 1984.
as is the way with us illiterate proles
some literature classed as absolute classics are usually shit. kurt vonnegut – is a bit shit, Catcher was the shittiest shit ever – but in my never ending quest to culturalisationise miself i march steadily forward.
in that light therefoe i can say that 1984 is completely the DOGS BITS MAN! It is fecking fabuloso – and i always new – its like a cultural thing within society how Orwell predicted stuff
the man predicted text messenging
the BB stuff is fecking amazing - mean i an about a uarter of the way through the book. Winston has just started his diary and we ave just leared that he was once married and he did a minger prozzie.
theres not alot of story consideringwhere we arein the book, when Tolkein waffled ( oh boy did that man waffle) abou the hills and valleys of mordor and fangorn woods and he stuck a pissin’ elvish song that only sad fecks like dh actually read – EVEN with LOTR my favouratist book ever i was lke “ffs Tolky…get on with it”
but i am so not – bang up my street this book, the proles need to rise up to make a change, thought police, BB, OMG i have not been this excited since i read my very first Pratchett book 3 years ago.
well chuffed.
who suggested that anyway?
thanks whoever it was
Offer on House and other stuff
we have had an offer on the house, a neighbour actually wants it for his mother! they are being a bit cheeky though so we have asked for a bit more – will update when i find out more. I was looking at replacing the front windows too! got a man to go do a quote and everything.
got my board presentation tomorrow – in front of like 6 directors, at least one of the hates me.
shiot shit and double shit – say prayers for me!


